Have you ever went to bed on Sunday night and felt the entire weekend was wasted? I recently read I Know How She Does It: How Successful Women Make the Most of Their Time by Laura Vanderkam. I’ve been inspired by Vanderkam to develop a new habit that I love (and I’m sure you will, too)!
One of my favorite points Vanderkam makes in I Know How She Does It is a simple and meaningful habit she and her husband do on Wednesdays. She points out that it is very easy to get through the weekend and feel like you didn’t get anything done, or that you had wanted to get together with friends and didn’t get it planned.
To fix this situation, she came up with this Wednesday habit of sitting down together and coming up with 2 or 3 things that can easily be planned and to loosely schedule it.
For example, if the family wants to go on a hike and have lunch with Grandma, it’s easy to plan the hike for Saturday afternoon and lunch on Sunday. By planning in advance it’s productive and meaningful.
I’ve tried this habit for a few weeks and it really does make a difference! Whether it’s planning a few fun activities, planning a social activity, taking time to do a hobby that you love, or spending some time tackling a project, by being on the same page it lessens any tension and makes it possible to make everyone happy! Other ideas for this Wednesday habit are to unplug, recharge with hobbies, exercising, and reflecting on your goals.
There are possible sacrifices that will need to be made to make these habits possible. You might need to limit chores so you aren’t stuck cleaning all weekend instead of living and doing things you love (but isn’t that important)!
I love this habit for a few reasons.
- First, it has helped us communicate what we would like to have happen on the weekends. Our weekends are usually packed with kid activities so any extra time is usually used for rest but it’s been really nice to have open conversations about any extra things we want to do (such as go to a movie, watch a movie, or take a nap)!
- Second, I’m bad at expecting Jason to read my mind. It’s something that I’ve worked on for a long time but this has been a very intentional way of being open with expectations (back to communication). If I want to get together with family, go out to eat somewhere special, or chill I let him know so we can plan accordingly.
- Every Sunday I feel good about getting something accomplished on the weekend, whether it was intentional family time or a project that’s been overdue on the to-do list!
- I am more organized and use my time more efficiently. If I know we have an open Sunday afternoon it’s easier for me to relax and read with the kids while sipping hot chocolate. I’ve let myself have more “fun” on the weekends instead of feeling like I need to cook, clean, and do “mom stuff”.
- I am more efficient during the week of doing things that need done so I can have more fun on the weekends with my family. In other words, I feel more balanced! A mom/wife/homemaker’s job is never done so it’s important to have balance of letting go of that guilt and spending time doing things that align with your personal priorities.
Would this habit help you? What is one of your favorite habits?
Hi ladies! Welcome to week 63 of Women With Intention Wednesdays!
Welcome to a new week of Women With Intention Wednesdays! Thanks for the patience last week when I had food poisoning and rejoining the fun this week!
The previous week’s top 3 posts didn’t click over to support their neighbors so we’re starting fresh this week. Please remember to follow the rules to support your fellow bloggers, that is what brings a community together!
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This is mine! I love baby calves! The kids have 3 favorites this year, they are Teddy Roosevelt (the one in the photo), Lucky, and Doughnut Hole (and yes, they named them all)!
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